During December 2006 Johan told me that Dolf apparently told his (Johan's) mother that he had a court order to keep Lili there in Kuruman with him.
At first I ignored it, I've heard it all before. Then Christmas came and Dolf still had the same story.
I finally took Xaynee and on the 3rd of January 2007 I 'temporarily' moved in with my parents. I also applied for a protection order against Johan.
School was due to start and it was Lili's first school year, I started to panic. My dad took me to the police station to open a contempt of court case against Dolf so he would bring Lili back but he told the police the same...he had a court order.
I turned cold when I realised that he was taking revenge on me. Before her visit I threatened to take him to court for the maintenance he was in appears with and I still remember his words over the phone... ″If you can't care for her, I'll take her″. He was also sending me sms's. One said... ″The wheel turns. You took my child away from me and now it's your turn to suffer. Lili accepted my wife as her mother and she wants nothing to do with you.″
It took all the strength I had to keep myself together. The police wasn't doing anything either and in the end I wrote to the Beeld. The next day someone at the police station told me to phone the social worker who was in possession of my file.
I phoned this social worker and she told me what was going on.......
2 comments:
Die storie raak al hoe meer bizar....die Dolf is 'n glibberige kalant. Hy speel vuil.
Jy moet baie rus, tot jy beter is, bly in die bed. Ek kan nie wag vir die uitslae nie.
Jy is honderd persent reg. Hy is erger as 'n jellievis.
Die dokter reken darem dat hulle my kan help. Ek is aan die een kant bly dat ek hier in Guernsey is, die mediese fasaliteite is soveel beter.
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